<p>Its your decision. Your parents have a say in the matter due to cost of attendance. Financial aid is tricky and in a perfect world it only goes to those who truly need it. Sadly, a lot of monkey business goes on and you may be shocked when you get to college (regardless where) to see kids driving BMW’s and on “financial aid.” Or scholarships given to kids with lower SATs than you and you are stuck holding the student loan bag. So prepare yourself for the real world/adult world of chicanery, corruption and favoritism. </p>
<p>That being said, you should take this time to evaluate both schools in depth,the faculty, the programs, the location, the “fun factor”, the likelihood of your success at each institution, the internships, the student vibe. Do you want to go away to college and become your own person? Or do you want to want to be close to home? 60 years ago, or more, the norm was living at home and going to the “local college”. Students went “away to state college” but it had the large dorms and cheaper tuition. Today, a lot of students go away to expensive LAC’s and private colleges and going to the state school is tantamount to staying home, even if they live on campus. People are on the move and want to explore the world, not just repeat high school and live next door to mom. However, some choose to stay close to home and go to a private school for professional reasons as well.</p>
<p>You need to decide what you want out of life. Yes, its adult time. First major decision of your life. Life altering decision. (Hint: there really is no wrong decision. All these narcissistic kids who start crying and wanting to transfer out freshmen year are often just spoiled and have delusions of grandeur.) </p>
<p>There are party animals at all schools. There are a lot of irresponsible kids who are blowing parents money and then some, just drinking, taking drugs and misbehaving. I heard one parent say “that is what college is for…parties and sports!” How sad. </p>
<p>Also be aware that “changing majors” or “intended majors” is very very common. Some kids find a professor or department and decide to make a change. Others are disappointed or find out its not really them. (I know a kid intent on being an architecture student at Princeton and ended up becoming an art teacher! Yep.) Its about self actualization. </p>
<p>Fordham is in New York, as you know and its a lot different than Miami. Fordham is an academic school with a lot of competitive spirit (though not cut throat) for big intenships in Manhattan. Miami is a very good school with a lot of frats and sororities and nationally ranked sports teams. Where do you want to live when you graduate? What career path do you envision? Grad school? Study abroad? </p>
<p>What kind of people do you want to meet in college? Find out the demographics of the student body. Do you want to be around Long Islanders another four years? or different kids from different faith backgrounds? </p>
<p>Good luck.</p>