I would add Clemson to that list. I have one currently at Miami. Great bargain for OOS and she loves the school. My wife and I both went to Lafayette. My kids would not apply too small. Also very little merit money at Lafayette. Also it seems to me that the 3 privates are very different and smaller than the state schools on the list. If she doesn’t want the big state school I would focus on some of the catholic universities as they tend to give good merit money and they are a little larger. Places like Duquesne, Dayton Xavier, St. Louis University, Creighton etc. I can tell you that Viginia Tech and Wisconsin give very little to no merit money so looking at full OOS pay at those 2. Both my kids applied to Delaware and got good merit offers. Personally I loved Delaware. Great location, very pretty campus. Good size public university.
Good luck.