UVA OOS or ND GATEWAY?

I was recently accepted OOS to University of Virginia, so it came as a surprise to me that I was accepted to Notre Dame’s Gateway Program. These two schools have been my top choices for a long time, so I am feeling extremely conflicted. If I had been accepted as a first year student to ND, I probably would have wound up choosing to go there. However, because I want to have a conventional college experience, I am extremely hesitant about putting myself in the position of having to go through the Gateway Program.
I will be visiting both schools’ Accepted Students Days in the next couple weeks so I can make an informed decision, but I would really appreciate any advice anyone has.
If you have gone to UVA from OOS or if you or someone you know has completed the Gateway Program, please offer your insight.