Rising senior here. Everything below is my own personal experience.
1.) Black students seem to be a bit more well integrated in the Vandy social scene than other minorities, but there’s still a clear disadvantage. Most of the black students I know usually hang out with other blacks. The exceptions are the athletes, who have more diverse friend groups for obvious reasons.
-Technically, the frats can deny anyone into their parties. Usually this happens if you don’t know anyone at the frat/party or are a “random”. Nobody will actually tell you that they actively deny only blacks to their parties. They have to maintain their political correctness. However, it does seem like they subconsciously may discriminate against blacks, using the cover of “who do you know here”.
2.) It’s POSSIBLE to do so. Fdgjfg has already said a little bit about this, and I’m sure that there are blacks in every frat/sorority. However, you have to remember that the frequency is much much lower. Most frats usually take in one or two blacks so that they can seem racially diverse and deflect any criticisms. If you do get into one of those frats, chances are that you’ll probably be seen as their token black member. So yes, it’s POSSIBLE to get into one of those frats. It’s just that you have a much much lower chance of actually getting in (only 1-2 blacks per frat).
3.) I’ve already said a bit about this on other posts, but in my experience, the answer is yes.
4.) No sorority girl will ever admit that they are racist against blacks. However, the reality is that everyone has prejudices that they may not even be aware of. All you have to do is look on the internet for the sorority websites. Here are some:
http://vandytridelt.■■■■■■■■■■/
http://vandykappadelta.■■■■■■■■■■/
http://vandytheta.■■■■■■■■■■/
How many black girls do you see in these websites? I think it’s reasonable to assume that if these sorority girls only hang out with white girls, that they would only hang out with white guys as well. It just baffles me how the Greek system claims that it doesn’t discriminate, when proof of the opposite is so readily available on the internet. Don’t be fooled by the Greek system’s advertising brochures that always show a racially diverse group of students. The reality is, the stereotypes at Vandy are for the most part correct. If you’re not white, it’s going to be much more difficult to have a fun college career because you’ll have a harder time getting into the Greek system, which is what the social atmosphere revolves around.
Don’t feel bad about being “narrow and racist”. Whites may downplay the need of a social life because they are just handed one by virtue of their skin color. You’re absolutely correct that social life matters, especially for minorities. Having a bad social life can affect your mood, attitude, and motivation, which also affects your academics.