I kind of feel like he’s an adult and, I’m sure that other parents will shout me down about this, but really what he gets for grades is his business, unless ahead of time you made a contract with him.
Really, parents should keep their noses out of their kids’ grades starting in high school and let them become adults. Independent adults.
yes yes I know you’re probably paying for this, but really . . . how long do you want to keep him on your apron strings?? He has to have a chance to trip and fall and pick himself back up. Let him become his own person.
If it were my child, I’d say: You get 4 years of tuition. That’s all I can pay for.
If he messes up and doesn’t graduate in time, he will need to sort that.
That’s my opinion. Feel free to spew. I’ve heard it all before.