I have a question I don’t feel I can ask mom’s doctor and was wondering if anyone here might know.
When I left mom last week for my son’s wedding it really seemed like she could die any day after having had seizures and being in the hospital and not getting much better with a week at home. Now that I’ve returned (yesterday) she seems considerably better. I expected worse because she’s near the end of her second week of chemo and the second week has always been bad - very bad - near death/needing transfusions bad. She’s still on morphine + other pain meds and fatigued, etc, but her brain is back and she’s not sleeping 21 hours of the day with the other 3 hours being minutes here and there rather than long periods of time. Now she’s awake most of the day, just still in bed or in an armchair. Even her BP has improved to 100+/60+ instead of 90/50 and her blood count has stayed in the “normal for her condition” mode instead of dropping.
Two things are different post hospital. She’s on Keppra for the seizures (works well) and she started taking Vitamin D3 as a supplement. Keppra’s effects were noticeable within hours and it’s still noticeable when she nears the end of a dose.
Could she have been seriously deficient in Vit D? (That level has never been tested, but she’s never in the sun anymore and isn’t on a multi-vitamin.) Would taking that for 3 weeks have improved not only the post hospital “stuff” but also the usual extra ill effects from a second week of chemo? Or can Keppra do more?
Or is it more likely the body seeming to miraculously get better before the end as I’ve been warned about and H just experienced with his mom’s death?
I don’t want to ask the doctor because if it’s the latter I don’t need mom hearing the answer (or the question), but I’d like to know if I can keep my optimism and be hopeful or if I’m setting myself up for a crash by doing so.
Any real life experiences/thoughts welcome. I’d like to know what the likely possibilities are.