<p>When my oldest was in grade school, her class went to Chungking. We would have loved to have gone, several parents apparently wrote it off as a business expense and were puzzled that H couldn’t do the same. ( He did work for Boeing, but as a machinist not an engineer or consultant & at that point was new to the company- I think we could have found a way to make it work anyway- for instance recently he was supposed to go to Italy to train workers & you can be sure I was trying to think of a way I could come along :))</p>
<p>You really have to stay several weeks to make the travel time worth it. I think it is would be an interesting family trip if the interest were there, and you could afford it- but I wouldn’t look at it as something that would make any difference in college applications.</p>
<p>However- a couple thoughts. My younger daughter- as I have mentioned, is currently in Ghana installing computers in a boarding school as well as getting to know the Ghanian people, as well as she can for 2 & 1/2 weeks.
However, the group she is with, are classmates from her high school & teachers so she has already learned ( I hope) to work with them.
They also have been fundraising all year, not just for their own airfare, but for supplies to donate to the school and village. ( Students also do bulk of planning- with guidance from adults)
I think the having the time to work together before hand would add to the experience over everyone & thing being new when you arrive.</p>
<p>While I would love the chance to travel and work with my daughters, I also know that they get something different out of their experiences that they have away from the family. </p>
<p>Not better- just different & for my high school daughter- she much would prefer in most occasions to not be identified as " her mother’s daughter", a side effect of my being a big volunteer and organizer from before she entered school.</p>
<p>When the whole financial end of programs is running into the thousands of dollars- I look at * what would I or my child get from this package that we couldn’t get on our own?*. Especially when on “our own” may be less expensive and more individualized to our interests.</p>
<p>Now Ds trip to Ghana- couldn’t have been done on our own.
We don’t know anyone there- she is going with a school organization that has gone to Ghana five times already, not to mention the other countries where they have run programs. This trip is also a once in a lifetime opportunity, because not only was she going somewhere that I had never even thought of going, but one of her high school counselors who used his vacation time to go along, is also from Ghana & they are visiting the village where he is Nana, * chief*. Really an amazing experience I am sure.
( the students also- to emphasize did a lot of fundraising and community outreach beforehand- that alone was life changing for my daughter- she has always been a community volunteer, but to take initiative and lead projects, that is huge)</p>
<p>For my oldest, as a 1st grader, to go to China, for us- it wasn’t even an issue. First while they had been learning Mandarin at school, ( and I had been helping with the Chinese choir after school) , they had the wonderful opportunities of working with people in the Chinese community in Seattle, learning & performing lion dance & meeting with the Chinese acrobats, I felt like * she is six, how much is she even going to remember? She is already doing more than I did when I was 16!*</p>
<p>The primary language is English in Ghana, as it serves apparently as the common language alongside the tribal languages, so the teaching and learning my D is doing, doesn’t have that barrier.</p>
<p>I do think that kids can teach English, a friend of older D’s taught school for three years in Micronesia, after high school, but I wonder how much he would have been able to communicate in just a few weeks.</p>
<p>I don’t mean to be a bucket of cold water- but as Libra ;), I always carefully consider everything for weeks before I make a decision. Not having the money helps too.</p>
<p>I think that travel can be very enriching, and while my own D would prefer to be on her own ( at least away from mom) at this age, other kids may get more out of it, and it could be a wonderful way to add another layer to your relationship.</p>
<p>But myself, I would be more likely to be able to talk her into going to New Orleans to help rebuild, as some friends have already done with their parents. Actually as I am studying restoration horticulture, I am very interested in doing something along those lines. However- it would be lots of studying about that region beforehand.</p>