<p>Today, those same boys might be playing hand held electronic games. I have seen that regularly.</p>
<p>No, this was in the past 2 years.</p>
<p>forgot about those books/markers with the hidden pics,etc. they used to be a godsend as the marker is colorless.always bought them in the airports for my kids as flight “treats”.</p>
<p>Like another poster above, my first inclination was to go for #1. I think perhaps you may do the kind folk of Virginia a disservice; there may indeed be some classy people there.</p>
<p>But I also think #3 has merit. Nice color, simple but elegant. Why can’t hubby go after the kid?</p>
<p>I used to keep a pair of those magnetic dogs in my purse, for times (usually nice restaurants) when I need a quick, silent diversion for one kid or another.</p>
<p>:) No offense intended to the good people of the Commonwealth - I spent most of my childhood there (and the rest in NC). I’m talking about the specific population who will be attending this event. They’ve got plenty of the right kind of class, but their standards of dress are regionally driven. (Diplomatic enough? 
I’m trying! Even though it’s my own inlaws I’m talking about.)</p>
<p>I am loving all these responses. You people are amazing, and your kindness, humor, and excellent suggestions are as mood-lifting as the spring weather.</p>
<p>Thanks, everybody!</p>
<p>I vote for gummy bears or gummy savers. Be warned about Starburst-they are so sweet that they cause some people to gag or choke unless they have a quick drink of water. Don’t think you want to add your own drama. Smarties are great if he won’t spill them.</p>
<p>is there a vote tally or a final decision yet? Pictures?</p>
<p>Don’t forget to do a dress rehearsal for yourself a day or two prior to be sure that everything fits, is clean, no moths have been munching, shoes haven’t ‘shrunk’, zipper busted, etc. I find this saves tons of panic on the important day!</p>
<p>Well, Wonderful Women,</p>
<p>Just checking back in to thank you all for the wisdom, support, suggestions, etc.</p>
<p>Blue sheath it is, and everybody’s outfits are cleaned, pressed, and packed. I took S2 for the final tux fitting yesterday and he behaved like an angel. (This may not bode well - aren’t you supposed to have an awful dress rehearsal, to guarantee a good show? Oh wait - the church rehearsal lies ahead. :eek:)</p>
<p>Tomorrow we’ll be traveling and then rehearsing; the real deal is Saturday afternoon. If there are any good stories, I’ll bring them back on Monday. </p>
<p>Wishing you wonderful weekends!</p>
<p>Did you remember to pack your accessories? Last time we went to an out of state wedding, my then 11 year old was a guest book attendant in a fancy dress and I totally forgot to bring a necklace or earrings for her.</p>
<p>:) Thanks, missypie! I had remembered to pack mine, but your post was a terrific reminder to IM my D at college and remind her to pack hers. (We’re scooping her up on the drive south.)</p>