<p>As it’s been discussed on this forum, sometimes a waitlist has to do with “yield management.” If the school that waitlisted your son had a very strong impression that he would not attend there, then it was possible they did not offer him acceptance because they felt they weren’t a serious contender.</p>
<p>I know it’s hard not to take it personally - but don’t. It is not a reflection of your son’s abilities or accomplishments. If you really, truly want to consider attending the school, call them and let them know that - it’s possible that your son would have a good possibility to move off the waitlist. But if he’s really not interested in attending, and has already been accepted at a school that you consider a better option, then I would just let it go.</p>