Wake Forest has rush during Spring semester, so you’ll have plenty of time to figure out which are likely to be a good fit for you. Both my kids were fairly proactive in fall grabbing lunch with actives in different sororities and fraternities during fall semester and that helped. They were the only ones from their town at Wake and didn’t know anyone at all. They both had a good experience. A lot of students join professional fraternities and other organizations instead of going Greek. For example, the business frat is a big deal and is a lot of fun. I would recommend keeping an open mind and look for fit, not status.
Good luck and Go Deacs!