<p>The dad was flying a home made experimental airplane. It was HIS choice to take chances like that with a family. I mean, where was his compassion for HIS family when he took such chances, for the fun of it? A tragedy is something that happens over which you have little control.</p>
<p>Many men and women do things like fight fires, become police officers, go to war, drive trucks, and die doing something nobel. An accident is one thing, doing something foolish for your own pleasure is something very different. </p>
<p>I am sorry for the son, believe me, but the arrogance people show in doing whatever for their own joy, even if it is dangerous, and with a good chance of getting hurt, well, I am more angry for the selfishness than anything else.</p>
<p>My H plays soccer for fun, my uncle fishes, and as I said, I told my H nothing dangerous until kids are in college. His fun could wait a little longer.</p>
<p>I had a friend that wanted to sky dive for her 40th bday, she had a 15 year old D. I did whatever I could to talk her out of it. SHe is going to wait until she is 50, when D is 25. She can wait.</p>
<p>I have much compassion, but it does make me angry that people with minor children do fooilsh things. Where was the Dads brain in all this? He was thinking of himself.</p>
<p>Yes, it is awful for those left behind…they will live with this the rest of their lives, the son will go to college without a Dad, the mother is a widow</p>
<p>And as awful and disrespectful as this sounds, we adults make choices. We decide what chances we want to take. We know life can throw us bad luck and tragedy at any time. Our job is to do whatever we can, with what we have, to be there for our kids as long as we can.</p>
<p>As I stated, those that join the military to serve, who are peace officers, whose job is a dangerous one, who do what they need to do to take care of their children and country the best way they can, when they are in danger it is for others. When a road accident happens, someone gets sick, someone is killed by the hand of another, or by bad luck just doing day to day things, that is the worst.</p>
<p>When an adult making adult decisions does something dangerous for pleasure and dies as a result, I am just plain mad at them for deciding to do something that could leave behind loved ones. </p>
<p>You may see it as disrespectful, but I see it as selfish behavior from someone who has others to care for and who need them.</p>