<p>“I finally managed to talk to a couple of departments at Ramapo yesterday after all. I got all the answers I needed. My counselor was very nice, spoke to her the last, but I got a bit suspicious about my CC footpaths when she told me tell your mom not to worry midway and I didn’t even mention my mom then!”</p>
<p>I agree with mominva: The counselor probably was looking at your file.</p>
<p>Even if Berea and Ramapo admissions officers happen to see what you’ve posted on CC, there’s nothing here that would make you look bad. It’s typical for students to be deciding now between several colleges. You are a strong student for both of those colleges, and I am sure they know that other colleges are competing for you.</p>
<p>It could be helpful for them to know about the situation with your mom in order to offer you the support that you need as you make your decision an go to college.</p>
<p>Still, I highly doubt that they are reading your threads.</p>