<p>oldolddad,</p>
<pre><code>Your admonishments are well taken, but you can’t speak for everyone on this board. In most cases, our child’s interest in Wash U was cultivated long before we knew what the EFC and scholarship outcomes would be. Some of us did know, however, what their SAT and GPAs were, and we assumed that our sons and daughters would be competitive. And though you say WUSTL warned applicants that competition was “fierce” (your word), nowhere on its website or in any of the scholarship materials that they sent us do they describe the odds in quite such daunting terms. In fact, this is what their own website says:
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<p>Sounds doable to me, and I’m sure many families proceeded accordingly.
Hey, it’s good marketing. And I’m realizing more and more each day, reading the posts on CC, Wash U is all about marketing. Makes some of us wonder if they’ve “marketed” their way into US News’ top 15. </p>
<p>How some of us choose to define affordability is our own business, of course. Some of us have spent a tidy sum already, sending our kids to private elementary and high schools. That was our choice, and we believe it was the right thing. Now we come on CC and hear people chastising us for not saving enough for college. </p>
<p>My complaint is not that we were “entitled” to anything. My complaint is that we were “hustled.” Yes, hustled. We were sent the fancy brochures. We were told to, yes, apply for this, apply for that. And we ended up swallowing both the bait and the hook. </p>
<p>Does a top 12 school really have to market itself like that? If the school is legitimate, shouldn’t the market create itself?</p>
<p>I apologize. I’m starting to get off-topic here. I appreciate everything every one of you has written, because it was heartfelt and has been immensely valuable to our family. Despite it all, we still believe in Wash U. We hope that an acceptance letter arrives soon. And we will do our darnedest to make it happen. Good luck to all of you.</p>