@timcervera21 I’m a relatively old hat now in NESCAC recruiting. Our experience with Wesleyan coaches has been entirely above board, and I can say that their admissions group was straight-forward as well. Alas, as much as the women’s coach wanted my youngest, who is a soccer player with DI offers, they couldn’t provide enough assurance for us (her) to justify using her ED there, which was disappointing but honest.
You should know that Wesleyan crew, especially the women, have become a powerhouse in the last few years, taking a bronze at the DIII NCAAs last spring and taking the collegiate division gold at Head of the Charles this fall (and sweeping their other fall regattas, which included racing against several Division I boats (UConn, Navy, etc.). Having a connection there, I know it’s become super competitive.
With that said, if you are on the coach’s list, in any sport, it matters … a lot. Based on your post, I’m assuming you’re a female rower (but I didn’t see you come out and say it). In any event, I don’t agree that “that’s how it goes with rowers”. I think if you were to dig around, you’d find that’s not the case. Pat (women’s coach) gets a list with admissions. It’s not as long as football’s list, but he gets a list. Also, you shouldn’t have had to push for an Official. It’s almost always the other way around.
So, at the risk of disappointing you, it may be that you were not a high-priority recruit. Again, I wouldn’t over-react if that’s the case. Wes women’s crew has become tough. I’ve been to regattas and watched them beat Division I boats. Their time in the collegiate finals of the HOCR, where they beat the best DIII boats and numerous DII and DI boats, would have placed them between 13th and 15th in the championship (‘big time’) division against club boats rowed by Olympians and top DI boats like Cal, Washington and Harvard. That Wes 1V is one of the fastest DIII eights I’ve ever seen, and I’ve seen a lot of rowing. I also know, w/o getting into how and why I know, that there are a lot of strong rowers competing to get onto that 1V, so that the 2V and even the 3V are fast and placing well at competitions and beating other schools’ top boats.
So, they’re not only fast at the top, but they’re deep overall, and Pat may be in the enviable position of being picky … like Williams has been historically. If it doesn’t work out, think about using ED2 and applying to a lesser rowing program, where you’ll be the prize recruit. That’s what we did with my D in soccer. Trinity is not the powerhouse it once was, but likely will be again at some point, so that may be a place to throw in your hat if Wes doesn’t work out.
Note: my connection at Wes is NOT with Pat. I know who he is, and we’ve met, but we do not know each other.