OP, folks are trying to tell you the stats are high for all. Even with perfect scores on the SSAT, perfect report cards, sports, arts, and volunteer work there are many other candidates who have the same stats. They don’t have room for everyone. It doesn’t matter that you have wanted to go there for years. They don’t care. They are looking to build a class.
Being an URM might help, so will being from outside NE. But not that much as there are also many candidates who will fill that pool of candidates as well.
Your best bet is to prepare for the interview and learn about the school as others have stated. Hopefully, they will find a fit in you.