<p>I am a freshman in college and I have a crush on this really cute guy.
People say I am a funny person. I know I can be funny around guys and talk to guys but when it comes to the guy I really like, I blush terribly and the guy would probably know immediately that I am really into him. So even if I want to talk to this really cute guy, I can’t because although I am acting all normal and stuff, my face will be burning red and he will know that I like him alot. So whenever I see him, I just hide away so that he doesn’t come talk to me and see me blush.
What can I do about this? Please please help.</p>
<p>lol, that’s pretty adorable :)</p>
<p>I think the only way you can get over it is if you get over the guy. But you just can’t help it! Don’t feel ashamed about it!</p>
<p>I will never get any guy I want that way. :(</p>
<p>Everybody gets nervous around somebody they like. Just act yourself and you will do fine.</p>
<p>“I will never get any guy I want that way.”</p>
<p>are you ■■■■■■■■ or something? If a cute girl talked to me and always blushed when she did so, I’d take it as a cue to ask her out.</p>
<p>I mean really, you just said you like this guy, yet you don’t want him knowing? Then either get over him or over your ‘fear’ of blushing.</p>
<p>Well, I don’t want him to know that I like him just yet because he seems like he is not interested in me. I want to go talk to him and make him laugh and kind of invite him to like me and then show him that I like him too but I can’t do that since my face shows I am IN LOVEEEEEE LOVE LOVE</p>
<p>In love yet ya barely know the guy… lol…</p>
<p>Well you could try mentally calming yourself. Breathe deeply for 10 seconds, assure yourself that there are plenty of fish in the sea, and then just talk.</p>
<p>I don’t think you should hide it. If he notices, I don’t see how it could possibly be bad or awkward, since it’s not like you’re saying or doing anything too forward. Just act normal, have fun, and if anything your blushing might subconsciously attract him to you :)</p>
<p>Wear hideous amounts of make up.</p>
<p>^ NO!!! lol make up is terrible for your skin</p>
<p>besides i think a natural blush looks nicer than makeup.</p>
<p>whatever… i have a blushing problem too. i turn redder than a coke can apparently. just breathe and ull be ok. i tend to hold my breath, that helps.</p>
<p>You sound like a 10 year old.</p>
<p>Tell him you like to take it in the butt.</p>
<p>who cares…</p>
<p>If you don’t want him to see you blushing, then just drag him into your room and turn the lights off.</p>
<p>Problem solved.</p>
<p>^Ha ha. That was awesome. Anyway though, you just have get over it. If he notices you blushing, it’s not like he’s going to hate you. Maybe he likes you too.</p>
<p>I blush too, i try to pretend it isnt happening and think about them as a friend…then it goes away for a little, then someone mentions their name and i blush…ugh i hate it too, i guess just accept it and hope they do too…</p>
<p>Is the guy also a freshman? If he’s a freshman maybe all he’s looking for now is friends. Why not just learn more about him and at the same time let him know about you. Maybe you could start by saying "great day where having! 
", unless its a rainy day. Then you say "terrible day where having! ".</p>
<p>only difference is that the would be blushing in the beginning of getting to know him</p>
<p>It is totally okay, if you are just blushing. Most people try to find a way to make the person they love realize the situation, but just to avoid some awkward sliences and all, they never directly have the “i love you” dialogue. They make a friend say it, or they arrange something else. So you dont need to do any of these, he will probably know that you are into him, but since no dialogue has happened between you guys on the topic, both of you will keep talking to each other, and maybe start dating in the future.</p>
<p>BUT, if you also stammer, and just can’t make proper sentences, then it will be a chaos.</p>
<p>That’s cute.</p>
<p>The next time you see him, force yourself into the mindframe of talking to your brother/guy friends. You don’t need a whole lot of effort to talk to those guys, right? It’s easier if you’re doing something other than just standing there so that you don’t have to stare into his eyes the whole time (it’s also easier to turn your face away long enough to get it under control). </p>
<p>It’s funny, but I don’t remember my face ever flushing until it started about a year ago. Now it happens all the time–whenever I’m called on in class, whenever I’m meeting with a professor outside of class, and whenever I’m talking to a certain someone. There are a bunch of online articles about training yourself not to blush…maybe you can give it a try and let us know how it goes.</p>