<p>For me, it was being around a bunch of bright engineering students and realizing I wouldn’t/couldn’t earn perfect grades as I did in high school. So I loosened up and stopped worrying so much! I had fun and even partied some. Still had a high GPA but stopped being a perfectionist. So when my future DH came along in grad school, one thing he admired about me was my ability to have fun and goof off!</p>