<p>but you don’t want to…how do you say “no” politely haha</p>
<p>sounds like a stupid question but I was pretty sheltered in high school and it’s looking like I’ll need some advice now that I’m in college.</p>
<p>Don’t slam it 'til you’ve tried it.</p>
<p>But assuming you HAVE tried it (and remember, this only applies if you don’t fit into the first category) then say that you don’t want to take the relationship this far/want to wait until marriage (assuming your partner doesn’t know enough about your sex life up to now that they don’t see past this)/don’t enjoy it. I’m sure you can come up with a clever and convincing lie; that’s what being in a relationship is about, right?</p>
<p>you dont say no…you shred it up and keep it loose.</p>
<p>he/she said ‘someone’, not a partner so i am guessing they are referring to random people offering? just tell them whatever you feel… the girl ultimately has the last word… unless raped, but thats a whole different problem in itself.</p>
<p>If you’re a guy drink till you want to.</p>
<p>Say to her, “No thanks, you’re too ugly/unattractive/annoying/weird/gross/fill-in-the-blank-with-whatever-applies.”</p>
<p>Then wink and walk away.</p>
<p>“I’m flattered, but I just don’t feel that way about you.”</p>
<p>This is assuming it’s a friend or acquaintance you want to keep being friends with, not a random, annoying drunk clinging to you like a barnacle and exhaling their rancid breath into your face.</p>
<p>Just say no. There is no explanation required. It is not rude, no matter how well you know the person. You are not obligated to do anything you are uncomfortable with. Don’t let someone make you feel weird about saying no, ever.</p>
<p>If this is a boyfriend/girlfriend (though I doubt it’s the latter) then just say that you’d prefer to wait or something. If it’s not a boyfriend/girlfriend, be ‘impolite’ and say no because that’s just weird…</p>