<p>Re: my own education- high school drop out- my spouse graduated from high school ( barely) neither one of us have attended a 4 year school- although I have been attempting to take college courses from a community college after taking my GED exam.
Thats our education level- income level is blue collar- hanging on to " middle class" by which I mean the average income in US.</p>
<p>We are very proud that both of our daughters have managed to graduate from high school, despite our own history. It was difficult- especially given our learning differences and limited resources. Our oldest has even graduated from college- from a school that valued her status as a first generation college student, and her determination to succeed despite her challenges.</p>
<p>Our younger daughter, has been accepted to a local university & has been working 1 & 1/2 jobs, to pay her way for an international service program, before she begins school next fall.</p>
<p>Given our background and lack of supports, it is a blessing that they are doing as well as they are. I don’t believe that you need to attend college to be educated- or to be successful and happy. However, I do believe that for many young people ( and older) , higher education will open doors, that cannot be shut again.</p>
<p>I also believe, that my children, add a great deal of diversity to the campus.
While ethnic diversity is tracked- and some stats regarding economic diversity can be identified, by looking at % and amount of loans/aid, we are much more than our skin color.
Not only do our kids have parents who work with their hands for a living, but dealing with disabilities and differences in sexual orientation also make for challenges that can be even more difficult * because* they are not visible.</p>
<p>As a constant advocate in public schools, I grow weary of those who dismiss what I have to say- because to them, my skin color denotes wealth & status.
It matters not, that this assumption is even shared by teachers, who despite contrary evidence, did not give my daughter her legal rights under IDEA, because as a child of white privilege, she * really didn’t need the help* :rolleyes:</p>
<p>I was stunned, to see written communication from an administrator in the school district stating that only whites were prejudiced.- Their past actions had illustrated this belief, but still I was surprised to see it advertised.</p>
<p>I realize that skin color and national origin will always be an issue for some in this country ( as well as a few other things, like age & sex). However, while we should keep moving forward- we also need to honor more subtle differences and similarities, because they are what keep us human.</p>