<p>Hi guys, if you consistently have eye contacts with this guy, and you both know there is something there, but neither of you take initiatives, what does this mean? Does it mean that you like each other but don’t want the commitment?</p>
<p>It means both of you are ■■■■■■■■.</p>
<p>No confidence at all</p>
<p>pedobear approved.</p>
<p>There’s obviously apprehension, perhaps fear. If you’re having this uncertainty/confusion HE could be going through the same thing.
Just go for it as long as you can handle the inherent possibility of rejection.</p>
<p>Your best bet is to let it fester for years of awkward uncertainty, each of you wondering but not daring to make the first move, all the potential but none of the action. </p>
<p>A decade later you bump into him at a mutual friend’s birthday party and meet his beautiful, charming wife, and you realize that it could have been you - god, it should have been you - but like a fool you hesitated and now the moment is past, gone like the ashes of dead leaves blowing away in the chilly autumn wind, and the phone rings and it’s your loveless husband calling from work and you hit “Ignore” without even really thinking about it because you wouldn’t even know how to answer, and in the bathroom you cry so hard that your mascara stains the floor.</p>
<p>Typically it means that you are misinterpreting what the eye contact means. Usually, this means absolutely nothing. I always give girls a friendly smile with some eye contact when they look my way. Do I mean anything by it? Never.</p>
<p>Laughing so hard at that, jack.</p>
<p>Also, it probably means you’re a girl he’d be embarrassed to tell his friend’s he’s going out with.</p>
<p>I’ve experienced a similar thing with the girl from [url=<a href=“http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/college-life/482371-what-does-mean.html]this[/url”>http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/college-life/482371-what-does-mean.html]this[/url</a>] thread. If he’s actually dying to ask you out (but is too shy to ask, as is my case), and you ask him out first, both of you will feel awesome.</p>
<p>hahaha jack!</p>
<p>seriously, go for it though 
whats the worst that could happen? a little awkwardness. still, i guess its easier said than done.</p>
<p>jack4640 is officially my favorite poster on CC.</p>
<p>thanks for the replies, guys. Jack, that is funny, but no matter what, I believe that I will end up with my Mr. right.</p>
<p>However, I do worry about what RacinReaver said. Sometimes, I feel like he’s out of my league. He’s outstanding on campus. His ex is pretty good, too. My friends say that I am different awesome, but they are my friends. This whole thing is so tiring that I just wanna give up and focus on sth else.Besides, I never ask a guy out, partly cuz I don’t know how.</p>