My feeling exactly: “wait until you believe you can be an effective, wise, and supportive parent.” And then, if you will be good, why limit it to bio kids? Or infants?
Sorry, should have said we wouldn’t have had biological kids. Having kids was very important to my wife and we would have adopted, or at least tried to, and it was something we discussed before marriage. She preferred we try to have biologicals first. We still talk about adopting sometimes when we see the “Saturday Child” in the Seattle Times.
I haven’t read most of the thread, and it looks like people have already said this, but I would be more cautious about having kids young than getting married young.
Having kids very young is like applying ED after visiting the campus, but never doing an overnight - not a good idea 