<p>No, don’t be sorry, actually, I was trying to make a point that most guys will never be perfect. You can go looking for the perfect person, he’ll come to you. I’m pretty sure that your future spouse will not be how you imagined him to be, and will have some flaws somewhere. Having set criteria is never good, especially if you follow them religiously. There should always be roomf ro adjustment and change. People never won wars by having a set strategy, they always adapted. Just like species never survived without adaptation and evolution.</p>