what should i write for my graduation speech?

<p>I’m graduating in a few days and im a val so im requird to write a speech but i havent started it yet. I have NOO idea what to write about. Heres the guideline</p>

<p>“description of what it is you hope to experience, accomplish, or hope to see come to fruition, and an explanation of why you’re looking forward to it happening–why is it important to you?”</p>

<p>Every topic i think of sounds wayy to corny and i’m unfortunately not too passionate about anything. Please help me think of a topic</p>

<p>xiao - Don’t over-think this. The audience is made up of your friends and their families. Pick a topic and write accordingly. The best HS graduation speech I’ve heard recently was by a student (now at UPenn) who talked about what it was like coming to the school as a 10th grader. He spoke warmly of those who welcomed him and helped him “catch up” with those who had been in the school system for years. Good luck with your talk!</p>

<p>So are you messing with us, xiao? In other recent posts you are asking which AP classes to take next year.</p>

<p>lol…</p>

<p>My goodness. That’s about the most deadly, turgid, dull writing prompt ever.</p>

<p>New Hope has pointed out that these are your friends and community. So why should the val speech by only and all about You, You and You?</p>

<p>Suppose you broaden it and include the other people in the class; I think they might appreciate it.</p>

<p>Let me try to turn the school writing prompt into something more personal, and see if that gets you off the ground:</p>

<p>Five years from now, in my best dream, here’s what I’m doing__<strong><em>, here’s what I can see some of us doing (a variety of types of accomplishments, academics, marriages, community activities, sports, music, owning a first house, driving a car, inventing something…things you know your friends might be dreaming of.)</em></strong>, _<strong><em>, </em></strong><em>, and </em>. PLEASE stretch and think about some of the non-academic dreams some in your class envision (having children, travelling, building a house, playing in a rock band…whatever you’ve heard them say in their wildest wishes and hopes).</p>

<p>Acknowledge that some will go far away (you might…so describe your college, its location and so forth) and never return. Others will go away for a few years but come back to this location. Others will begin their lives right here and make the community stronger in some way with their contributions.</p>

<p>What do you have in common? The experience of this high school, the past 4 years. (Mention some things that are funny or poignant that have happened at the school or community within the past 4 years, that most everyone would know about, even if it’s a flood, or big weather event, or related to the national news; or school family events such as teachers who had babies within the past 4 years, anything that is a shared memory from people in your class).</p>

<p>Then thank the school on behalf of not only you but everyone for providing them the foundation to each pursue their special dream.</p>

<p>Finally, I’ll give you a tip from my H who has to give a public speech weekly.
DELIVERY is what counts. You can write about toilets but if you deliver it well, it will be a great speech,.</p>

<p>So write the sucka, and then practice it in front of a mirror many,many times.
Speak slower than you think. It will seem a bit unnatural, but yo have to pause after each phrase or several words (microphones). Otherwise all your words will run together. SPEAK SLOWLY. Write that in pen above your text so you remember when yu get up to the podium.</p>

<p>Try to practice it in the hall where you’ll give it. Ask a friend to sit in the audience who hasn’t read it, and ask that friend, “could you understand every word I said, or did I go too fast?”</p>

<p>Look UP from the page when you deliver it. Wave your hand up in the air if you want to, for emphasis. Smile and be natural. </p>

<p>In the end, people will more likely remember the good delivery than anything you say in particular.</p>

<p>But I outlined that above because, IMHO, a valedictorian represents the best of the entire class…and shouldn’t limit the topic only to his/her own accomplishments. Rather, include and mention your community. </p>

<p>Say what a great class they are and how wonderful it’s been to know them.
It can be interesting to refer to the new technologies now (facebook, cells…) that mean you don’t have to say “goodbye” forever.</p>

<p>If you think so, thank the parents, grandparents and guardians who make sure kids get to school each day; your teachers; the working staff of the school (custodians, lunchladies…); principals. It’s good to thank people (on behalf of you and others in your class) because nobody makes it alone. Be gracious and acknowledge those who help your class function each day…</p>

<p>Hope some of these ideas help you.</p>

<p>SoCal Gal, THANK you. Is it true that Xaio is messing with us.</p>

<p>I am SO ANGRY if what SoCal says is true.</p>

<p>X, You just caused me to expend my time and energy over you.</p>

<p>Why not just go and pull a false fire alarm or something.</p>

<p>ummm my hs sister shares this account with me. i probably also have posts regarding duke, that should verify things (im going to duke next year). so no, paying3tuitions, you didnt waste your time and i appreciate your help, especially the tips on delivery!!</p>

<p>OK, I feel so much better. I’m really appreciative you cleared that up!!</p>

<p>Sharing accounts, I do understand it. </p>

<p>Congrats and good luck with the speech, and onward to Duke!!</p>

<p>My daughter is speaking as senior class president and I showed her some of your suggestions. Thank you.</p>

<p>^^That’s very exciting! Enjoy the graduation!!</p>

<p>On the point about slow delivery with pauses between phrases, that is really important. Speaking from the stage by microphone is entirely different than speaking in a room with friends or even in front of class (unmicrophoned).</p>

<p>Pause after each PHRASe… You actually already know how. Do it just as you do when you say the Pledge of Allegience to the flag:</p>

<p>one nation (pause), indivisible (pause), with liberty (smaller pause) and justice (pause), for all. </p>

<p>Then the microphone won’t garble your words together.</p>

<p>Good luck (pause) and enjoy the day.</p>

<p>You’re given guidlines for your grad speech. Ridiculous. You would think that they would trust the kid at the top of the class to write an appropriate speech w/o giving guidlines. I didn’t get any guidlines and neither has any other student grad speaker at my school. I would say screw the guidlines. Write whatever you want, however you want (within reason) and blow everyones mind away. Good Luck :)</p>

<p>My daughter didn’t get any guidelines. (I spoke at my high school graduation a million years ago, and I didn’t get any guidelines either.) I got to read her speech this afternoon. I thought it was inspiring. Graduation is on Thursday night. I will tell her about pausing after each phrase; thanks!</p>

<p>Short. You should write something really short.</p>

<p>If you’re a good orator and you’re interesting to listen to, make it as long as you want. If you’re dull as bricks, make it short. My val’s speech was beautiful and inspirational, and if the sal had delivered it, it would have been fantastic. But he didn’t, and it wasn’t. Know your limits, or else work day and night to make that speech interesting.</p>

<p>Graduation, and D’s speech, went very well. Thanks for the advice!</p>