<p>So I applied to a Big Ten University, but unfortunately did not get accepted.</p>
<p>I am now at a smaller University, live at home with my parents, and am not too happy. I’ve never imagined myself to be at the school I am at right now, and I’m still trying to adjust to the idea. My grades are good though.</p>
<p>My dilemma is the following: if I stay at this school, I won’t have the social life that I would at the big university, and I feel as if there won’t be as many opportunities for me to succeed. (Everyone here is so undetermined and not motivated)</p>
<p>If I do apply and by a miracle, I get accepted, then I would risk ruining my GPA and not getting into a good grad school, possibly med school.</p>
<p>Should I try transferring? I am confident that I am smart and can do well, but I’m so very scared that the classes will be too difficult and my GPA will suffer.</p>