Whats for Dinner?

My wife likes cooking vegetarian meals. She uses the Ottolenghi books, and Deborah Madison. There’s some tofu and brussels sprouts recipe she likes a lot, and anything with eggplant, and anything with cabbage. Also eggplant parmagian from Marcella Hazan, but broiling the eggplant (lightly) rather than frying it.

Stuff I make that lasts for days, and it’s not hard:

Beef stew – Get some rump roast or chuck (a big hunk, maybe 2-1/2 lbs) and cube it, coat with flour, salt, pepper, and brown on all sides in as little oil as possible. Meanwhile, in a pot, saute lightly diced garlic, diced hot peppers,mushrooms, and diced onions in a little more oil. Add the beef and a large (20 oz) can of chopped tomatoes (or chop a can of whole tomatoes), and either about 10 oz of dark beer or a little less red wine. Add a bunch of good dried mushrooms, or better yet the powder from good dried mushrooms. Add herbs to taste – a couple of bay leaves, rosemary, thyme, oregano. After about 45 minutes of simmering, add cubed rutabaga, and 45 minutes later add cubed parsnip and cut-up carrots (or “baby” carrots). Cook about two hours total, or until everything is soft (but hopefully the veggies are not too soft). Stir pretty often, because it will burn. Add chopped parsley at the end.

Thai curries – Stir-fry whatever vegetables you like – green beans, broccoli, carrots, bok choy, with some shallots. Reserve. Stir-fry some protein – shrimp, pork, tofu, fish. Reserve. While you are doing this, soak about 1/3 - 1/2 a package of wide rice noodles in warm water. After the two rounds of stir frying, remove the noodles from the water and stir fry them quickly, with some water, broth, or rice wine in the wok. Before they stick too much, turn down the heat and add a can of light coconut milk, a little broth or rice wine, a heaping tablespoon of Thai curry paste (my favorite is masaman, I get it at Asian markets for about $1.29 for a can that makes two of these meals), the juice of two limes, and chopped basil. Let simmer for a bit, then add back in the veggies and protein, and get everything hot again. The noodles should be cooked but still chewy.

Other easy stuff:

You can do this with fish fillets (cod, haddock) (cut up into 3-4 pieces per fillet) or boneless chicken breasts (remove the tenderloin part, and cut the main piece in half horizontally, to make two scallops plus the tenderloin). Dip thoroughly in beaten egg, then coat with seasoned panko (salt, pepper, paprika). Saute in butter or oil/butter combination until golden brown on each side – about 5 minutes per side for chicken, less for fish. If chicken, it helps to cover the pan while it cooks to ensure thorough cooking. Serve with fresh lemon and hot sauce (or, for fish, tartar sauce = 2-3 tbls mayonnaise, 2 tsps relish. 1tsp hot sauce, juice of 1/2 lemon).

Braised fish: In a dutch oven, saute garlic, diced rutabaga and/or parsnips, mushrooms, carrots. Add a small can of chopped tomatoes, some red wine, and chopped fresh herbs. Bring to a simmer and cook until the hard vegetables are almost cooked. Add a meaty fish fillet or steak (salmon, cod, monkfish, haddock), cover, and cook for 10 minutes or so until fish is just cooked through.

Make pasta with any kind of sauce. Mark Bittman’s book How To Cook Everything has a whole bunch of easy sauce recipes.

My kids like chicken Caesar salads. I poach chicken breasts (sometimes then freeze them), and either get a packaged Caesar or use dressing from Whole Foods (one of very few store bought dressings I like, refrigerated near the fruits/veggies). Add some whole wheat bread or rolls, and my kids are happy.

We also like Jennie O turkey brats, which very sadly are hard to find in Seattle. Boil in beer, then broil for a few minutes to crisp up. Whole wheat bun to make it healthier.

When the kids were home in the summer, my rule was greens with protein. I’d have a pasta or potato salad, hard boiled eggs, chicken curry salad, pickled beets, and sometimes just a package of smoked fish or sliced turkey to add to the greens. Add whatever vegetables were around, steam or roast another vegetable if being indulgent and that was it. Usually corn on the cob was on the table when in season.

Living alone, I live on soup in the winter, varied with something in a tortilla many nights.

Inparents, the Jennie O sausages are wonderful. The Italian ones are my favorite.

My fam love my slow-cooked meat dishes (preferably use the meat that is more fatty than lean, good saturated fat from wholesome meat is good for us!):

Pork - I like Boston boneless butt/spare ribs (I will ask the meat dept to chop the Boston bb into stew meat size/ribs cut between two ribs and once lengthwise): rinse briefly in boiling water to get some of the residue blood/grime out, lay them in baking dish, add soy sauce/balsamic vinegar/ground ginger/garlic powder/cayenne pepper, roast in oven for about 3-4hr in 245F till they are tender and juicy.

Grass-fed beef chuck roast/bison chuck roast/turkey thigh - one fresh squeezed lemon juice + three-tbs avocado oil + 7-8 cloves of garlic + salt - blend them well (this sauce is called Toum, I think), combine the meat (2- 3lb) with the lemon/garlic sauce and again roast it in oven at 245 till the meat is tender. Very simple and always delicious.

@Consolation I got Plenty because of that gorgeous eggplant on the cover. It tastes as good as it looks, though I usually slice and grill the eggplant.

Other good dishes:
page 29 Sweet potato wedges with lemongrass creme fraiche
page 65 Roasted butternut squash with sweet spices, lime and green chile
page 87 Shakshuka
page 106 Saffron Cauliflower
page 110 The eggplant
page 116 Lentils with broiled eggplant
page 122 Burnt eggplant with tahini (worth finding pomegranate mollasses)
page 222 Castelluccio lentils with tomatoes and Gorgonzola (I don’t like Gorganzola so I used goat cheese)
page 278 Pear Crostini

Yes, they are all good. But it is especially the turkey brats that we love. When I first moved to Seattle a few years ago they were in stores, but they have disappeared in the past couple of years. :frowning: I literally looked in every grocery store chain around. For a while they showed up sometimes at QF, but nothing for the past year or so.

Salmon and Rainbow Veggies - https://www.buzzfeed.com/joeyfiroben/eat-the-rainbow-with-this-one-pan-salmon-and-rainbow-veggies?utm_term=.fvX8KdpRK#.qpG5dGl2d

This is a quick and easy dinner – colorful and healthy, too. I had never heard of sheet tray dinners before I read this thread, but I guess that’s what this is.

I loved cooking and experimenting with all types of cuisine when dh and I first married. Then I had four kids, all with different and some picky, palates. I got tired of working hard on a nice balanced meal only to have maybe half the family even like it. I refuse to be a short order cook, so eventually I fell into a rut of making the same meals over and over that satisfied the most people in the family. My girls are better eaters than my boys so occasionally I just make what I know the girls will eat and tell the boys if they don’t like it, there PB&J in the pantry! I’m looking forward to the day when I can cook the meals dh and I used to enjoy and not have to worry whether my kids will eat it.

Things ALL of my kids will eat:
Chicken Parmesan with pasta
Nana’s Meatloaf (has a sauce that they love) w/mashed potatoes
Greek Chicken with orzo
Skirt Steak Fajitas w/homemade marinade
Chicken Enchiladas
Fresh Market pre-shaped hamburgers (they love the bacon cheddar) - grilled at home
Homemade Ravioli (Christmas tradition)
Pulled Pork BBQ (dh smokes outside all day)
“Asian” Pork Tenderloin (an Ermeril recipe)
Homemade Mac & Cheese (Epicurious Recipe)
Fish Tacos (Bobby Flay recipe)
Grilled Salmon
Chicken Marsala
Steak Subs made with shaved beef from Trader Joe’s
Pasta with a sausage and pumpkin sauce (Rachael Ray recipe we make in winter)
Chicken Tortilla Soup (boys don’t like most soups but eat this one)
Grilled lamb chops with mint pesto
Marinated flank steak with roasted red potatoes

*boys won’t eat salad, will only eat broccoli, green beans, corn on the cob. Girls will eat zucchini, yellow squash, asparagus, salad. Dh and I love both raw and cooked spinach but none of kids like it either way. I make the boys eat raw carrots on nights we have veggies they won’t eat

I had one kid who wouldn’t eat noodles. He doesn’t like lamb or fish. He only really likes chicken for meat though he will eat steak and pork. He doesn’t eat any vegetable except raw red pepper. Maybe mashed potatoes. He learned to open a can of refried beans and make a bean burrito - because yeah, being a short order cook is so not happening. That kid now eats turkey sandwiches from the cafeteria at work and frozen pizza or Life Cereal the rest of the time. Weirdly he loves chicken vindaloo.

“Weirdly he loves chicken vindaloo.” LOL

That’s not weird. I think the people who don’t love vindaloo are weird.

Definitely in a rut and kinda bored. Ours are: battered frozen fish with pasta with Costco pesto, whole roasted chicken (Peruvian chicken with green sauce if I am feeling ambitious - but I don’t spatchcock the chicken as the recipe suggests - https://www.epicurious.com/recipes/food/views/peruvian-style-roast-chicken-with-tangy-green-sauce ), marinated flank steak, pan-seared salmon with spice rub (usually just ras el hanout) various pasta dishes — shrimp scampi, linguine with clam sauce (canned clams), spaghetti with turkey meatballs (I make a bunch and freeze them). And oven-fried or parmesan chicken, chicken burritos (or vegetarian burritos). I have decided to try one new dish each week—will see how long it lasts!

I get around the “What’s for dinner” question by doing weekly meal plans and grocery shopping once a week. Anyone in my family can look on the fridge and see what’s being prepared. We usually try and mix up our proteins and will have at least one non meat meal and one fish meal a week. We do have favorites we will go back to a couple of times per month but rarely do we eat the same meals twice in a month. As an aside, my wife found a magazine some 20 plus years ago with 100 pasta recipes. I discovered a couple of weeks ago that we had made 54 of them. A new item on my bucket list is to prepare all 100.

@FlyMeToTheMoon Yes, I almost always pound them. Good point. :slight_smile: If I’m making something that braises, like paprikash, I don’t.

@intparent Alas, no Costco in Maine. :frowning: I don’t mind doing the prep to save $$ and feed the stock collection. I do draw the line at buying whole breasts and boning them myself, although I used to do that.

I am handicapped in that I cannot eat potatoes and very little pasta, due to the need to control T2 diabetes with a low-carb diet. I’ve also had to cut back on dishes that are based on beans/legumes. Although they have good fibre, they are also carb-heavy. I can only eat 1/3 cup cooked rice per meal. I eat a lot of things that most people would have with rice over sauteed greens or some kind of vegetable (zucchini, eggplant, cauliflower, for example) instead.

I agree with @doschicos that kids should be involved in the meal planning and prep, especially once they are out of high school. And while I’m sure some might disagree but my kids were never allowed to just eat anything and everything they could get their hands on and certainly not foods I had purchased or prepared for another evening meal.

I’m a bit (maybe more than a bit lol) of a Type-A and posted a weekly menu on the fridge. It helped tremendously with my grocery budget and just as importantly with time management when working two jobs and single parenting two kids. So those days are over now but it worked then.

As for summers, my fridge was usually stocked with two types of cold pasta salad (one with shrimp and peas and the other with tuna, each kid had their favorite), a large container of BBQ chicken, roasted and raw veggies. Pitchers of lemonade. These were the type of things they could help themselves to at their whim. We also always had yogurt, hard boiled eggs, fresh fruit etc. for snacks. Most nights I grilled fish or meat and served with a green salad or other veggie.

In the winters I did alot of meatloafs, crockpot stews, baked mac n cheese with diced ham, jambalya, those sorts of things. Leftovers that weren’t for another meal (whole meatloafs, small steaks, unopened ground burger) were up for grabs.

In the end, my S is a great cook, my D not so much. When I give her a hard time about not being able to boil an egg, she assures me her goal is to marry either someone 1) who is a good cook or 2) can afford to take her out to eat most nights LOL.

Make your own pizza or make your own burritos - buy packaged tortillas or pizza dough, jarred salsa or pizza sauce, shredded cheese. Cook some ground beef, cut up some tomatoes / avocados / onions / peppers (whatever your family likes.)

Each person gets a baking tray and portion of the pizza dough or tortillas, assembles their creation and bakes. Easy and fun!

I usually love to cook, and, if I do say so myself, I’m a pretty good cook! However, this college process has sucked the life out of me…Last night, lacking motivation, we had ‘breakfast for dinner’, does that count?! H had bagel with lox & cream cheese, I made S, Bacon, eggs, sausage, grilled mushroom & tomatoes, a leftover zucchini I pan fried, and toast, D was out, and I had banana and peanut butter on toast,LOL!

I think vindaloo tends to be too hot, but what’s weird is that it is my super picky eater who likes it best. My favorite breakfast for dinner that my Mom made - I never have - was crepes wrapped around bacon and bananas.

@Consolation no diabetes in our family, but dh’s low carb obsession means we eat hardly any rice, pasta or grains.

Long ago I weighed chicken breasts after boning them and decided that the price saving of buying them with bones was minimal. I haven’t looked back.

This weeks menu just for information:

Saturday (that’s when my week starts): Marinated London Broil Grilled, Baked Potatoes (done in the microwave, not as good but I had half an hour to prepare everything) and Asparagus with a pinch of garlic olive oil and balsamic vinegar.

Sunday:Cumin Dusted salmon served over Vigo spanish rice with brussel sprouts cooked with bacon

Monday: Shake n bake chicken, frozen french fries and canned green beans. The chicken was made ahead and I had to be somewhere by 6:30

Tuesday: D home she made a garlic encrusted Pork Loin Roast served with fettucini alfredo and Steamed Broccoli

Weds: Another busy evening. We purchased good bread and rubbed it with EV Olive oil, and made toasted cheese sandwiches with sharp white cheddar cheese, sliced tomato and fresh basil and had Progresso Tomato Basil soup.

Thursday: Chicken breast (I get large ones and slice them in half long ways) marinated in Italian dressing then grilled served with provolone cheese and roasted red peppers out of a jar. It will served with a Mediterranean salad with Cannellini Beans.

Friday we are on the road so what ever we stop to eat.

I usually do my planning Saturday morning but this weekend I’ll be out of town so menu planning will probably start tonight.

If I get home from work early enough it will be salmon baked in a foil packet with a spritz of olive oil and Penzey’s Mural of Flavor sprinkled on (both DH and DS love it this way), some roasted potatoes and onions (olive oil,smoked paprika, garlic salt, and pepper), peas or broccoli, and a salad.

If I get home later than anticipated the salmon will be poached w/ dill, lemon, and some wine in the poaching water.