<p>I agree with UT Austin or N. Texas probably being a better fit for your daughter. Are your families Aggies (thus the loyalty)? Across Texas are plenty of families “divided” and they all do just fine. </p>
<p>We have spoken to several officials at Texas A and M about the services for students with disabilities. I strongly suggest that you reach out to them and ask questions. We are very impressed with what we heard. </p>
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<p>Keep in mind that colleges and universities have to follow (as I understand it) far fewer rules that public k-12 schools do. A smaller school, on paper may seem like a better fit, simply because it is smaller, but the reality may be that they offer far less support and services. Additionally, if they don’t regularly offer accommodations, there may be an uphill battle to get them. </p>
<p>Are you in a major metropolitan area? Are there private high schools that serve students with learning disabilities? If so, you might consider contacting the college counselor at one of those schools and asking if you can pay him/her for a few hours of their time. In my experience, these counselors have a pretty good grasp of which schools work well with students who have disabilities.</p>