<p>There is definitely information out there about college for kids with disabilities. The “disability umbrella” has such a wide variety of situations under it, that it’s not meaningful to discuss it without specifics. But there are some big-name schools that are known for their special programs. The University of Arizona and Syracuse are two that immediately spring to mind.</p>
<p>I am specifically not commenting on whether a big-name school matters. I can see how it might, and also see how it might not.</p>
<p>About the grandparent input (if I can add four cents) – let’s not assume that all grandparents who offer money, will want input in school selection. I hope one day to be the kind of grandparent who can (a) help and (b) defer to the kid, the parents, and a good guidance counselor to make the smartest choice of school. If I offered to pay for someone’s eyeglasses or running shoes, I wouldn’t expect to pick them out – it’s too personal. Same with schools. If you really want to help, you want to see the person end up with what will work for them.</p>