<p>Booze always work. If booze don’t work, then she really doesn’t want you.</p>
<p>jimmypop hit it just read that post a times and youre good to go.</p>
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<p>Most people don’t like being hugged or kissed by their own family members.</p>
<p>To OP: Just hug her, or initiate some small kind of physical contact already. A hug is not that big of a deal and if she seems uncomfortable then at least you know and won’t do it again. Simple.</p>
<p>“girls can read neediness like comic book guy reads comics. so don’t give them any material to work with”</p>
<p>oh yes. oh yes. that is very true.</p>
<p>haha i tried putting the moves on this one girl and she never spoke to me ever again</p>
<p>well at least you tried.</p>
<p>:x People like me, I’m really shy. I’m not used to physical contact, not even in my family. I don’t dislike hugs but I’m not comfortable with 'em, maybe because I haven’t had very many. So no way I can take any initiative or choice to get into physical contact, even holding hands or arms or anything. If the guy presses physical contact in a natural way, without being awkward, I can receive it ok (maybe), but most of the time, I feel very awkward about physical contact. Especially if I haven’t known the person for long.</p>
<p>Anyways, I would feel incredibly awkward if anyone tries to press anything on me so soon as the third date. I’m ok if he makes very subtle indirect moves within the first few dates, but I would really be scared off if he tries anything within the 3rd date (heck, or even the 9th date).</p>
<p>Still. Must admit, makes me feel fuzzy to receive attention (but note: attention doesn’t necessarily mean physical contact).</p>
<p>after 3 dates w/o any real touching i would’ve lost interest</p>
<p>i dont go out looking for females for the long haul, they eventually prove to be flippin mad relatively quickly. i’m not saying be easy, but you know</p>
<p>clapyourfeet: try drysol. it works wonders.</p>
<p>my gf and i started getting touchy feely before we started going out.
that was my signal that it was pretty clear i had a good chance of getting an affirmative answer =D</p>
<p>I wouldn’t put 3 dates as a hard limit but the sooner you break the touch barrier the better. Jimmypop has the right idea, girls can smell low confidence a mile away. One important thing to remember is to make sure you dont go to overboard with the ‘touching’ right away (being a “Touch-Whore” can kill dates). Using just the right amount of touch at the right time can make all the difference. Put aside your fears hugging her/holding her hand/kissing her and just do what you feel is right.</p>
<p>Let her touch your p3nis or something.</p>
<p>grow some balls, you know what you need to do. From what you described, she sounds very interested…try touching her courteously, help her through crowds, pick stuff up for her, see if she reciprocates</p>