<p>I agree that PEOPLE are very important and if you have other options, it is really good to think carefully about what others have said about working for this individual. If it is uniformly negative, there is a reason and toxic people and situations take their toll. I would carefully explore & consider other options like VeryHappy suggests.</p>
<p>Hubby has not taken several promotions at his workplace because he really enjoys the folks he works for & with and the promotions would require him to work for & with different folks who are hugely dysfunctional and somewhat toxic.</p>