<p>sjmom:</p>
<p>We are anxious but will not come in our kids way because</p>
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<li><p>People accelerate not because they are trying to impress but because they love to push their boundaries by learning many other things in depth. I think kids have choice to make about their own life if they want to accelerate faster than norms</p></li>
<li><p>People accelerate not because they are trying to impress but they love the stuff.</p></li>
<li><p>Sometime kids have multiple interest and thus they try to take explore multiple areas before deciding what is the best thing they may have national ranking in it but they find a different passion they have never expected in the other subject. </p></li>
<li><p>Sometime kids have multiple interest and thus they try to take explore multiple areas. They may national ranking in math/science subject but as they explore humanities, they find that they have found the passion, which runs deep as they can start to notice that though math logic they can find humanities much more interesting and they can apply it in many new ways. They excel in it and this gives them thrills. Vice versa may be true also. However, kids choose to pursue passion, as they want to make a big difference in whatever career path they will take. Thus, many kids at college change their majors.</p></li>
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