<p>I think the OP’s first comments are hilarious:</p>
<p>“she intends to become an actuary because that will bring her billions of $. however, she told me that she decides to give up this pursuit because becoming an actuary in the US requires 8-year college life and she simply cannot take it”</p>
<p>So she is not willing to put in 8 years of study (which is actually easier than working in a real job, I should add) to make “billions” of dollars, but yet expects to take in the big bucks in just a few years by studying something else.</p>
<p>Ha, Ha, Ha, Ha, Ha, Ha, Ha!</p>
<p>As someone who has known and worked with and even gone to school with some very successful people, let me put in my 2 cents worth here: Making money generally involves being (1) talented and having creative ideas, (2) having a passion for a certain field or job, and (3) Being willing to put ALL your effort into being successful and not quitting.</p>
<p>Look at some of the successful people in this world–Bill Gates, Warren Buffet, Donald Trump, Steve Jobs, Mark Cuban (in business); Barack Obama, Joe Biden, Rudy Giuliani, Hillary Clinton, John McCain, and Arnold Schwartzenegger (in politics); Steven Spielberg, George Lucas, Clint Eastwood, Jody Foster, and yes, even Kelly Clarkson (from American Idol). All of these people knew what interested them from the start–and never deviated from their attempt to be successful in that field (well, except for Kelly Clarkson–who wouldn’t have been successful if she hadn’t gotten back on her track to fame after originally deviating from it).</p>
<p>These people refused to quit–and even when fired (something that happened to Warren Buffet, Steve Jobs, Mark Cuban, Steven Spielberg, George Lucas, and Clint Easwood), they strove on. John McCain was in a POW camp for years–but never gave up hope. Joe Biden’s wife and one of his daughters was hit by a motorist and killed, but he continued to strive on in politics and eventually became a Senator. Bill Gates and Steve Spielberg dropped out of school to pursue their passions. Jody Foster went back to school to be able to pursue hers. Clint Eastwood moved from being a very successful actor to taking a big risk in directing since that was his passion. He never won an Academy award as an actor–but he’s won two as a director. And we all know about Schwartzenegger and his journey from a weak teenager to Mr. Olympia to Top-Grossing Hollywood Actor to California Governor.</p>
<p>Your friend already sounds like a quitter–and times aren’t even tough yet. And you never mentioned her passion–other than it being money–which isn’t a passion at all.</p>
<p>People who just want money are hardly ever successful. It’s people who want to change the world–and get money as a by-product that are successful. It’s as simple as that.</p>