Which School????

Grand Valley State University(about $7,000 out of pocket + loans)
pros: greek life, close to home, good scholarships, co-ed, parties, medium size campus, decent sports, near a city, friends, new buildings, academics
cons: farmtown

Michigan State University(about $9,000 out of pocket + loans)
pros: greek life, in a city, co-ed, good sports, legacy, parties, friends
cons: lots of loans, BIG campus, city can be dangerous, huge campus

Saint Mary’s College- Notre Dame($6,000 out of pocket + loans)
pros: close to home, most scholarships, across the street from Notre Dame, great city, can keep my job
cons: no greek life, really small, all girls

How many loans would you have to take out for each school? Is your family able to pay $9,000 out of pocket vs. $6,000?
Have you visited each school and did you feel a better “fit” at one vs. the others?

Also couple of notes:
-I wouldn’t call East Lansing a particularly “dangerous” city!! Lansing isn’t the nicest city in Michigan, but you can easily go to MSU for four years without stepping foot near the capital if you so choose.
-If “academics” is a pro for GVSU, it should be a pro for MSU, too, because MSU’s academics are better than GVSU’s imo

In the end, though, it seems based on your list that you’re leaning toward GVSU, so, if the cost is manageable, that’s what I’d choose.