<p>jhk43: I would suggest you just not care what happens on CC. There are plenty of places on the www where much more outrageous things are said. Just step back and not worry about it. It is as if you are going into a church to ask why everybody is so intense about God. There are plenty of people on the Parent’s forum who are reasonable and at least a few who aren’t, but your kind of OP isn’t going to get any productive reactions, at least among the responses. Good luck with your life.</p>