<p>I am a sophomore and I just transferred this semester to my first choice school. This school is kind of boring; they’re focused solely on academics. I absolutely did not like the first university I attended. This semester, I’ve been busying myself and I’ve been putting myself out there and making new friends. I even joined a club and they meet up twice a week. I’ve been really open minded about this but for some reason I’m just not feeling it. I want so bad to have fun like my high school friends are but I just don’t enjoy it. I do have a depression and anxiety problem but I’m not too sure how much it plays into this situation. Are some people just not meant to like college? Because I have a new goal now: get my credits, graduate, and get the heck out.</p>
<p>“Because I have a new goal now: get my credits, graduate, and get the heck out.”</p>
<p>This should have always been your number one goal. It’s college, not a dating cafe. Do what you have to do and get out, unless you like being buried in debt and wasting your time learning useless G.E. craps.</p>
<p>OP, you have only been there a month, so it makes sense you aren’t fully into the swing of it. I transferred as a junior and it was somewhat difficult as many had their groups already. I was fortunate that a number of people from my high school were there but over time I made good friends with others.</p>
<p>I get that I’m supposed to graduate with a good GPA and all that but I want to enjoy it too. I don’t wanna trudge through 4 years without enjoying a single thing. It makes me extremely depressed. </p>