<p>Colleges don’t have the meal plans, residence halls/dorms do. Dorm rooms are not homes or apartments- they lack the food storage and preparation facilities- aka kitchen/pantries of home. Students need to have nutritious breakfast lunch and supper available. Perhaps your school’s residence halls are requiring more because they are not getting enough food service business with the current system to pay the fixed costs of their food service buildings. Regardless of how many meals are served there are fixed costs- buildings, salaries et al.</p>
<p>I could rave about the UW-Madison way of doing things but that is useless to you. The cost of living is part of the deal in attending any college. Many different ways of doing things, with pros and cons.</p>
<p>I’m sure you don’t realize the total costs in time and money when you cooked at home- most borne by your parents, not you. I’m sure you did not do the grocery shopping, never had to buy the cooking, serving, storage, dishes, silverware and other nonfood items needed in a kitchen, the cleaning supplies, mops, brooms… much less the appliances used from microwave oven to stove, refrigerator, dishwasher… Nor did you have to pay for the utilities such as heat, gas, water, hot water, electricity, sewer… You also did not do the cleanup and maintenance of the kitchen, either. It’s one thing to put your dirty dishes in the dishwasher, or even wash and put them away and quite another to thoroughly clean counters, floors and appliance interiors (ovens, refrigerator and cupboard interiors for example). Oh- and did you buy the table and chairs you used? Or pay for the electricity for the lights? Or the heat/air conditioning? Take out the trash/recycling? Pay the mortgage/taxes?</p>
<p>Oh- plus you are expected to spend your time not only going to classes, but to study. It is no wonder mothers who try to also attend college, even part time, have trouble managing it all. I know we do a lot for our apartment based college son- just furnishing him with the basics took a lot of time as well as money for the mother who knew what was needed and where to get things. The tradeoff for him is standing in lines at the cafeteria or doing a bit of the shopping and cooking, only the tip of the iceberg. He is appreciative of all we do for him.</p>
<p>ps- composing my post took awhile and finally posted after other replies. I doubt you’ll get a lot of sympathy from parents.</p>