<p>Because you’re whiny. Do you compliment others? Do you always smile? Do you suggest things to do, or just wait for people to come and bask in your radiance?</p>
<p>I mean, these are little things. How about asking some friends to get together? It’s really not that hard. Watch a movie. Go to a club. Eat dinner together.</p>
<p>^ There was a point in high school where I always smiled yet I was ignored more than ever. Then again, I looked like ****, so that solves that. I’m afraid of looking phony though.</p>
<p>Yes, I compliment people, but only when I TRULY mean it. Again, I’m not going to be phony. Everyone sees through phoniness. </p>
<p>I suggest things all the time. As a matter of fact, I invited some people to my house and proposed the same thing again this week. They probably just used me for my big house…</p>
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<p>I don’t tell other people my problems. I have complained about stuff, but not as often as everyone and the same stuff as everyone else.</p>
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<p>Have you thought of a fresh start before you entered college?</p>
<p>You need to pick friends who’ll accept you. Not use you for their advantage.</p>
<p>"^ How do I stop being boring and obnoxious? Why am I this way? Why do even people I know with Asperger’s have more friends than I do? "</p>
<p>You have low self-esteem, honey. This thread, which you have resurrected week after week over the last 3 months, is proof of it. You continue to invite mockery with your pitiful stories because you want your sense of worthlessness to be confirmed.</p>
<p>^ To be fair, I’m not the only one in the thread who has resurrected it.</p>
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<p>You see, the thing about social convention is that it doesn’t depend on people not seeing through it. Yes, everyone sees through insincere compliments, but that doesn’t mean you aren’t expected to make them.</p>
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<p>If anyone wants to talk to me, PM me. Otherwise, this thread should die.</p>