<p>Hahahaha! So who would decide the input parameters of your super-computer?</p>
<p>When you search for a spouse or your future children do, is this the kind of method you’d think is optimal? How about choosing senior care for your parents? Or choosing a surgeon for an upcoming drastic surgery? How about just buying a car or a home?</p>
<p>As for rejection and feeling “not good enough for them”, another poster, jonri, wrote the following on this thread on the parent’s forum</p>
<p>What to do when child gets rejected?</p>
<p>"I think it helps to know that it’s all about building a class. I’ve used this analogy hundreds of times, but applying to college is like trying out for a high school musical. It’s all about the cast. No director picks the 20 most talented musicians/actors/singers who audition and starts rehearsals. Instead, they cast for specific roles. They need so many girls and so many guys. A girl with a soprano voice is going to be competing with lots of talented kids for a lead. The boy who sings bass will have less competition. If the play is “Guys and Dolls” and he’s a bit plump and can play Nicely Nicely (who sings "Sit Down You’re Rocking the Boat), he’s probably not going to be competing against more than a couple of people for the role–and may not have any competition. (And, if you are the girl applying for a spot at a co-ed LAC, you’re in a position not unlike the sopranos auditioning who see less talented guys get better roles.)</p>
<p>Some kids will get picked because the director has worked with them before–and knows they can do the job. Some will get picked because they “fit.” If all the boys in the chorus line are short, a director may not pick the tallest girl–even though she’s a better dancer than the shorter girl who is chosen.</p>
<p>The point is that NO top college claims that it chooses the best students among the applicants or the most deserving applicants. Instead, they fill roles. So, if Stacy or Kevin gets in and you don’t, it doesn’t mean that Dream U though that they were more deserving–it just means they could play a different role than you can. The role might be an athlete, an URM, a girl who wants to major in engineering, a legacy, a kid from a less advantaged background, or something you’ll never figure out.</p>
<p>I think that knowing how the system works–that it really isn’t about judging the relative worth of two different applicants–helps kids deal with the rejections. If you’re a white or Asian middle class kid with two college-educated parents who comes from an affluent suburb of a major American city, reality is that the “admit” rate for the role you are competing for is probably roughly half of the published overall rate. You’re the soprano trying for the lead."</p>