<p>While I may tell you he is an idiot I have approached him about this before in a nice way. He has decided to choose his lifestyle with his new wife over his children and there is not much I can do. One of the main reasons that we got divorced is we disagree on how to spend our money. I like to spend it on the children as well as put some away for retirement. He likes to spend it on kayaks and other things. Over the years there have been various expenses for the children that he did not want to pay. However he did so because otherwise I would take him to court.
My sons top college requires the FAFSA and the CSS profile from both parents(even though his college is not on the list of colleges that require the CSS).
We have plenty of backup schools. I just posted this question because he wanted to know.
He has an IEP. Thanks for the tip on TRIO , I will check that out.</p>