<p>I’m not going to pretend I know what lies ahead of me and if I will be happy for the rest of my life being a doctor. However, any time I read these kinda of articles, I always rationalize that I truly have wanted this for as long as I can remember and It’s the thing I’m most passionate in my life about. I feel like the people who write these articles or are miserable are (as the person said) doing it for parents, money, prestige, etc etc. Those are also people who maybe want to “live it up” in their 20s and aren’t willing to make sacrifices. Something that does upset me when I think about it from time to time is that I will be spending the majority of my 20s either studying or working minimum wage in a hospital. But it’s worth it to me and I don’t need to go out drinking every night/take road trips/go on cruises with all of my other 20-something friends while they have a more flexible work schedule. All I need is this career, a husband and a family and a few good friends and honestly, as much as he says that you will most likely lose your significant other and all friends, it must be an exaggeration. I shadowed an attending at a hospital and I spoke to some of the women doctors who just finished residency. They ALL were married and had at least one kid. There ARE happy doctors out there, and everyone I’ve met seems relatively happy. Also, he doesn’t really discuss the life AFTER residency. Sure, residency must suck. Once you’re done with training and can maybe join a practice, I can’t imagine it being equally as hellish. </p>
<p>Just the two cents of someone who’s not even in med school yet :-P</p>
<p>The surgery program at my medical school, a year ago, was very excited. If everything continued for just a few more months, it seemed like the program would, for the very first time, graduate a female resident who had stayed married throughout the program.</p>