My D got 2 positive pre reads- D3 schools:
School 1 said if she got in on her own she would have spot on the team but -no support from coach (no band/chit used).
The pre read said looks good best bet ED1
School 2 coach used spot (chit) for her (less competitive school-she could get in on her own without coaches help-probably)
School 2 less competitive and a plane ride which makes me anxious with covid and other things
The other school is a drive away (3-4) hours and more competitive.
She is scared to give up a sure thing for chance at School 1
Ideally she would like to do ED 1 to college closer and if she does not get in do ED2 to school 2
any thoughts on how to finagle ED 2 with School 2 ? She did call coach at school 1 and when he found out she was being recruited elsewhere is when he offered her spot on tem if she gets in on her own. D is also legacy at this school and does not need aid.