I’m currently a student at Thomas Edison State University and have completed about 63 credits thus far, my major being Finance. I have of 3.9. However, I have been considering transferring to another school to better my chances for acceptance into a more competitive university for my master’s.
Just a bit about myself: I started college quite late (I’m currently 26 yrs old), as I came from a very troubled background. I don’t really go into specifics often because I feel many people use “sob” stories to make excuses for them not trying their hardest to get out of where they came from…
My father was incredibly abusive. He was very physical with my mother and then later to me. Often times I would refuse to go home simply to avoid getting hurt. My situation was very complicated at the time, but it wasn’t until 16 that my mother decided to up and leave, abandoning me with my father.
Needless to say, I did not do well in high school, and started working at 15 by forging working papers (as he refused to give me money for anything). I moved out as soon as I was able at 17 and tried to attend college once I graduated high school. I worked at a local community college as a graphic designer as well as a secretary job while attending their design classes, I did decently enough, considering my schedule (I worked from 8am-5pm at the office, then 6-7/8 at my internship, then classes were night classes from 9-11pm).
I then, got in a car accident, broke my leg, required surgery, and was unable to walk for 6 months. Unable to keep rent and my job due to my situation, I was forced back to my father’s house. Needless to say, that was a mistake as three years ago, shortly after I healed he decided to get physical with me and tore my shoulder. I ended up having a restraining order with him and was forced to bunk with friends until I could get back on my feet.
For a long while, college was just a faraway dream to me. However, I never gave up on myself. I spend hours stealing wifi and sitting in friends cars in parking lots, or at the library, just to get what I’ve achieved so far at Thomas Edison State.
I very much want to get into business, and know that I am capable. However, is it too far from my grasp to try and attempt grad school at a competitive school? I’ve spoken to advisors at several schools (I live in NY). Fordham, NYU, also schools such as Penn State. All have said that I have a good chance as a transfer student due to my grades.
I was accepted to Temple University about three years ago, before the accident, but was unable to attend as I was unable to take out the necessary funds remaining after FASFA (my credit was shot as I found out my father was using my credit score for various things without my knowledge, and so, I had horrible credit). However, it is now, much better, as I have opened cases and disputed things that he had fraudulently opened in my name. So, I would not mind taking out money for college if it means I can achieve my dreams.
If I want to let’s say, apply sometime in the future to a competitive university for my Master’s in Business, is it better to transfer from TESU to a state school? Or should I simply finish where I am and apply to competitive universities afterwards? Would I have a chance?
Thanks all.