Willingness of men to “marry up” MISMATCH w unwillingness of women to "marry down"

" I have been married for almost 35 years. I’m still not much of a cook"

I’ve been married for 28 years. My H does the cooking (and even so, it’s very basic - microwaving vegetables, making turkey burgers, etc.). I absolutely hate it and it’s probably been weeks since I’ve used any appliance other than a microwave or Foreman grill. I’m not “into” food and it’s just a big chore to me.