@hunt:
Why should you be surprised they would be reluctant to report sexual assault? With forced rape of the stereotypical kind, even now with rape shield laws (barring the victim’s name from being mentioned, despite the fact that some sleazeball lawyers still try to leak names, or threaten to, to get the victim to shut up), despite the fact that lawyers are no longer allowed in court to try and discredit the victim by asking about her sex life, what she was wearing and so forth, and despite the fact that not unlike places like Pakistan, there once was a culture in this country blaming the victim, that she must have 'asked for it, that has changed, there is still a lot of reluctance for victims to come forward if they have been raped or sexually assaulted (non consensual sex while drinking), there is still shame out there and fear that keeps those crimes from being fully reported.
In the case of sexual assault when the girl had been drinking , there is still the attitude out there that it is her fault (I am using her, because most cases of sexual assault are a man against a woman, though same sex ones do happen). When the animals in Ohio sexually assaulted the girl in the Steubenville case, or Glen Rock in New Jersey where a bunch of jocks sexually assaulted a mentally handicapped girl, a lot of people blamed the victim for ‘putting herself in that position’, and the lawyer for the garbage who did it tried to argue it was consensual, since the girl went willingly with the boys…
So there most definitely is a culture that still allows these things to be underreported.A girl from a conservative family might be unwilling to report it, especially if she was sexually active and it was a case where it got out of control or something, there are a lot of reasons why it wouldn’t be reported. Among other things, victims need to be reassured their names won’t be out there publicly, or be allowed to be dragged through the mud, and schools have to establish severe penalties for those who out the names of victims, which especially when it concerns athletes at big name schools, is often a tactic used to keep victims quiet.
Yes, there is a difference between forced rape, and non consensual sex (either the victim was unable to consent, or where they tried to say no in the middle of consensual sex and the other person didn’t stop), but both are real problems, and most of all, it takes convincing victims they are not to blame, that ultimately it is owned by the other person if something bad happens, that like with rape, is never the victims fault.