I’m so sorry your child + family is going through this. It sounds like you are dealing with a private school (other family is a large donor). In my child’s school, secondary school counselors are active in the high school admissions process advocating for students with “next schools,” so there could be communication between now and March 10 between this school and the schools your son is applying to. I think it would be helpful to come to agreement with the secondary school counselors on what you agree they would say about your child to any high school if asked about him by any high schools.
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