Would you choose to go somewhere for a girl/guy?

Transfer Students
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<p>Would you choose to go to a university for a girl/guy over the university you really want to go to? If it’s for a boyfriend or girlfriend I would understand, but what if it was just a crush? A girl/guy you’ve liked for a long time and you have no clue what so ever if you have a chance or not with her/him? This has been on my mind since last summer before I even started applying. And it’s hard to tell if she/he likes you cause you always get mixed signals, or maybe I’m just overanalyzing things.</p>

<p>Knowing how many of you on this forum think, most of you would probably choose the better university that you want to go to. Oh and here is how I’m trying to rank which school I would rather go to:</p>

<h2>University’s Prestige</h2>

<p>UCB- 4
UCLA- 3
UCSD- 3
UCI- 2
CSUF- 1</p>

<h2>Distance from Home</h2>

<p>UCB- 4
UCLA- 3
UCSD- 4
UCI- 2
CSUF- 1</p>

<h2>Political Science Dept.</h2>

<p>UCB- 3
UCLA- 3
UCSD- 2
UCI- 2
CSUF- 1</p>

<h1>of Friends</h1>

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<p>UCB- 3
UCLA- 2
UCSD- 3
UCI- 4
CSUF- 1</p>

<h2>Distance from Her</h2>

<p>UCB- 1
UCLA- 2
UCSD- 1
UCI- 100
CSUF- 3</p>

<h2>Total Points</h2>

<p>UCB- 15
UCLA- 13
UCSD- 13
UCI- 110
CSUF- 7</p>

<p>So the way I rank it, I should choose UCI over any of the other ones I applied to. Some of you will probably complain about how I ranked some of them but that’s not the problem here. The problem is I’ve been accepted to UCI and CSUF, but I want to go to UCB for school but UCI for her. Half of me wants to get accepted to UCB and the other half wants to get rejected so I wouldn’t have to make the decision. In the end, I’m afraid that I’ll end up regretting in the future the decision I make. I hate these emotions. God, emotions are so useless, who’s the idiot that thought of them!!!</p>

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<p>Omg prepare for trainwreck post.</p>

<p>Talk to her. You can get rid of the mixed feelings/signals if you’re honest. That should help you decide.</p>

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<p>…if it’s a long-time girlfriend or boyfriend I can somewhat understand but this is a girl that you just have a crush on. A crush since last summer!? That’s almost approaching a year. Instead of using your energy to think about this, why don’t you spend it asking her out.</p>

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<p>never choose school for a girl. plenty of hotties once you get there.</p>

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<p>if its meant to be it will happen no matter where you go to school…you’ll regret not going where you truly want to go</p>

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<p>Funnyguy is wrong.</p>

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<p>Yes, definitely talk to her. </p>

<p>I made the mistake myself of applying to a school for a certain guy that I was crazy about in high school. Luckily, I got rejected. Otherwise, I probably would have been miserable because in retrospect it was clear that we weren’t compatible. </p>

<p>So, moral of the story, you should do what is in your own best interest…as heartbreaking as it is at the time.</p>

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<p>You’re going to get condemned left and right, but I’d like to say that I support choosing schools for loved ones. Some people just have different priorities; most have never been in love.</p>

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If only it was that easy. And no it’s not cause I’m afraid to ask/tell her, it’s just more complicated than that so its not an option. I had my sights set for UCB and then a few weeks ago she had to go and say to me “you made me smile before I even knew you” because she saw me around during freshmen and sophmore years of highschool when we didn’t even know each other yet. She’s one year younger. I had my sights set on UCB, but she had to go and make me ask myself “what if?” I HATE HER(not really). jasdpfoijasdpofijasdofijaspodifjasdf</p>

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<p>Because it does not truly exist.</p>

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<p>That’s the point. This isn’t a move to be with a loved one. This is a girl he’s been CRUSHING ON for a year. Now he’s planning to go to a school just for her. That’s not being in love, that’s like being a stalker.</p>

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More like 3 years. Yeah, I know I’m stupid.</p>

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As you can see I didn’t even consider that in picking where I want to go. I’m not the ones that run around actively looking for a girlfriend or to get laid. When I fall for a girl its pretty much a surprise.</p>

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Except for the part where she TOLD me to go there with her.</p>

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<p>You should make sure she knows the absolute truth; she may even not want you to make this decision based on her (and how you really feel).</p>

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<p>My apologies IaA, I do not know the whole story. It was premature of me to make a statement like that. However, I still standby my first post, ask her out first.</p>

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sooo… you want to like a puppy after her until its time for grad school and then pick the same school again only to realize that you have been living someone elses dull life? altering things to such an extent for acrush at the age of 19 (when you apparently don’t much experience) will be a ridiculous, pointless and stupid mistake. i can’t even count all the first dates, short term-relationships of ephemeral crushes i have had just between 19 and 21. moreover, you shouldn’t do such a sacrifice even for a gf at your age. go run free. seriously.</p>

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<p>lol. Is that so, martini?</p>

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<p>Love exists, janel is a bitter cynical tard. :D</p>

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<p>short answer: no.</p>

<p>if an issue is ridiculous enough for someone to make a tv show out of it, it probably isnt smart to do it in real life.</p>

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<p>No.</p>

<p>I am just realistic.</p>

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<p>Best CC argument, ever.</p>

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<p>You said she is a year younger? What will end up happening if you go to UCI to be with her is that she’ll apply to schools next year and end up at Berkeley. So go to Berkeley. However, UCLA is not far from Irvine at all so this is just a stupid post.</p>