Would you choose to go somewhere for a girl/guy?

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<p>I’m 20 and I forgot most of them too.</p>

<p>People sure do love my topic. They can stop complaining about adcoms and my stupidity. I’m helping them lower their anxiety. =] THANK ME BIITCHES!</p>

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<p>Umm…cookie? :p</p>

<p>So I screwed up once, sue me.</p>

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<p>uh…the discussion was about bf/gf out of HS…concerning two people who are barely adults…marriage has responsibilties…I mean we all know the success rates of relationships between HS students lol</p>

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<p>what did you tell her when she asked you to come to UCI with her?</p>

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<p>Again, I’m not disagreeing outright.</p>

<p>But that doesn’t mean that some don’t succeed. Like I said, I present a clear exception (yeah, I know, don’t use exceptions to form rules. I got it.)</p>

<p>I think that in APPREHENSIVE’s case, he should choose the school he wants the most. It sounds like his interest is likely to do it herself. But, if someone has a relationship that’s reasonably mature and developed, I see no problem with it. I’d rather have a decent love life than a slightly “better” degree.</p>

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me: oh UCSD letters start coming next week!!!
me: maybe i’ll get accepted the first day like UCI! hopefully!
her: haha just go to uci
me: but i haaaaaaaate irvineeeee</p>

<p>6 Days later…</p>

<p>me: i didn’t get into ucsd =(
her: oh… :[
me: yeah they said they’re still reviewing apps =(
me: i thought it was suppose to start today cause they said they start mid march
her: oh taht doens’t mean you didn’t get in
her: when they go… THANKS FOR APPLYING but we got too many smarTER applicants
her: sorry *****
me: oh so i still have a chaaaance yaaaaaay! hey if i get in should i go there or uci?
her: sd? obviously go to the better school</p>

<p>14 Days later…</p>

<p>me: they’re releasing berkeley decisions todaay!
her: oh shooots are you nervous?
me: no cause its only for freshmen applicants =(
her: oh hhahahha ■■■■■■
me: i have to wait another goddamn month and sd is still making me wait. everyones getting accepted. =(
her: you’r egoing to uci andyou know it
me: but there’s too many asians there. i hate asians.
her: no you dont all your firends are asian you love asians
her: and you’re going to uci
me: you can’t make me
her: it’s not even up to you
her: I KNOW you will</p>

<p>she’s confusing me.</p>

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<p>So she’s telling you to just go the better school… </p>

<p>Sorry, man. But that should give you a good indication that she isn’t fretting too much over whether or not you’re going to be with her. Then again, she could just be saying that because it’s the obvious thing one should say, despite the fact that her feelings are otherwise. </p>

<p>Either way, as has been said before, there are two crucial steps you need to take:

  1. Talk to her. Find out the deal.
  2. Go to where you really want to be. You’ll be glad you did in the end.</p>
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<p>Well, here’s my opinion.</p>

<p>The difference between UCLA and UCI isn’t enough to destroy a relationship. Not by a long shot. It’ll mean that while some of your friends have plenty of time to spend with their SOs, you’ll have more time to study and figure out whether she’s right for you.</p>

<p>I’m a rare exception. I know it. But I also believe that the right person is much harder to find than the “right school.”</p>

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<p>Dude, YOU HAVE NO CHANCE WITH HER. I know that I sound like a complete *******, but someone has to snap you back to reality, just as I was snapped back to reality long ago. </p>

<p>Seriously, you have absolutely no chance.</p>

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<p>IaA, asian hater, that conversation does not mean she wants you to go to Irvine dude. She’s just bantering and continuing the flow of the conversation. How are you with women in general? Is it easy or difficult for you to get numbers, dates and lays?</p>

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<p>Does that question really need to be asked? I am torn up on how to deal with this guy, part of me wants to ring his neck for being so naieve, and part of me wants to sympathize with him because he can’t control his feelings.</p>

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<p>Quote:
How are you with women in general? Is it easy or difficult for you to get numbers, dates and lays? </p>

<p>Of course he is not getting numbers, dates, or lays. You are apprehensive…I mean “I am apprehensive”…you need to move on with your life. You have a simple, nearly obsessive crush on a probably fairly attractive girl, very natural, not a big deal, but you are not married(reality check)! DON’T GO TO SCHOOL WITH HER! You will be happy that you didn’t- make new friends, meet new people, obsess over new girls, and most importantly, FIND A NEW VICTIM! (haha I’m not trying to be mean, just snap out of it man) Anyways, if the relationship is strong, she will be willing to drive to see you at UCLA or Berkeley or talk to you on the phone if she loves you that much.</p>

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<p>moderator:</p>

<p>delete this drama.</p>

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<p>I would go to the school that i always wanted to go to:-)</p>

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<p>I’m going to UCSD and out of Berkeley for my girlfriend. I’ve decided.</p>

<p>Although UCSD is not as prestigious as Berkeley; however, if you feel that you could spend your entire life with this girl then it should be a no brainer. </p>

<p>College is only four years =/. A Spouse is forever.</p>

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<p><a href=“http://www.dfki.uni-kl.de/~miller/publications/miller02.pdf[/url]”>http://www.dfki.uni-kl.de/~miller/publications/miller02.pdf&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

<p>Check this out: Why I will never have a girlfriend. It’s a mathematical proof on the impossibility of ever finding a girlfriend.</p>

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<p>…and your choice of college could affect your life… forever.</p>

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<p>college is what you make out of it.
going to UCLA vs. UCI vs. UCSD
you could succeed at any of those schools.</p>

<p>it’s not ike it’s harvard vs. uci.
cause well then… maybe a bit different… but…</p>

<p>personally, i’d rather take a spouse i’m happy with then to live a nice life cause you know you’d need a neat spouse to live a nice life anyway. haha.</p>

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<p>I think it’s important to realize that an education of quality benefits a person as long as a person endures. Unless you’re a statistical wonder, a marriage is usually interrupted by death at some point. Also, either decision will only influence you for an average of 40-50 more years rather than forever.</p>

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<p>i’ve already chosen the school. stop bringing this topic back.</p>

<p>i’m going to ucla. cal if i get in.</p>