<p>Ok, I did a tentive (but pretty close to accurate) tax return today and according to the EFC calculator, I have underestimated my parental contribution by about half!!! :@( This has not been a good month…</p>
<p>Our daughter currently works VERY hard to keep her grades in the high 90’s. She is active in extracurriculars that also take a good deal of time. Between these things, she has little time for socializing outside of school, and she is becoming very sleep deprived. In fact, she took some time to relax and go out this weekend, and as a result, was up until 3:30 A.M. Sunday night trying to finish her homework because she underestimated the time needed.</p>
<p>Primarily for these reasons, we have not wanted our daughter to work after school/weekends. She is very low maintenance, makes few monetary demands. She also did not work summers so that she would be free to camp with us and she has assisted in my business or with watching her brother. </p>
<p>I have to say honestly as well that I was not able to handle college and working, although I was raising my daughter. But I also think that I was a better student than my daughter. I tried work study, but was grateful that I was able to drop it without a huge hardship to myself. </p>
<p>The FAFSA asks if we are interested in student loans and/or work-study. While I believe that I can make this increased EFC, I am not at all confident that I can give her anything else. I am self-employed, so this is pretty scary. What is really scary is that the income is not even reflective of my usual output. I am a service professional and I only get paid after the job is done, which can often take a year. I was very ill in 2005 and took on little work in 2005 and 2006 just to manage the work that I already have. Consequently, my income from 2007 is actually money that was owed me for those years. </p>
<p>With the lower EFC, I had intended to pay for a laptop, pay for dorm set-up, send her care packages, pay for trips home, pay for a phone, and the little incidentals. But these are things that are not all at once. However, if I have to fork over all of this money as EFC for tuition and board, this is a problem.</p>
<p>I also did not want her to HAVE to work while in college. Given what I’ve seen here, I have concerns for her taking on college coursework as it is. We expect that she would continue the same extracurriculars and also find time to exercise and make friends. While work study can be a nice opportunity, I am concerned that she will find herself overwhelmed and be unable to put her studies first by dropping work study if needed.</p>
<p>Additionally, we intend to continue having family camping trips in the summer while she is home and would not want to rely on her working during that time. These trips are very important to us. In the past, we put off these kinds of things for the day when we “had more time and money”. But after we dealt with some life-threatening illnesses, we decided that we didn’t want to chance someone not being here when the money came… </p>
<p>We also are not sure if this would change our EFC if she were to work the summer before college.</p>
<p>I am inclined to put “student loans” only on the FAFSA for the reason that we can at least ensure that everything is covered financially, and if I can swing more money, there will just be less debt. </p>
<p>But then again, maybe I should put both, because if I don’t, she definitely won’t have work study as an option. </p>
<p>What would you all advise?</p>