<p>I think now would be a good time for her to break out of her comfort zone and try jobs that will help build upon areas she may struggle or be uncomfortable with. You say she is an introvert - I assume you mean shy, or prefers solitary activities/jobs? But in order to succeed, today’s businesses are less about what you know (the resume, cover letter, GPA, etc.) and more about who you know (networking). </p>
<p>It sounds as though she was hoping to feed off of your husbands connections, but she also needs to start building her own. That will require good communication and people skills, teamwork and building long-term relationships, and becoming more comfortable and confident in such settings. She should look for work that will challenge her and build upon these skills while also utilizing the skill set she already has. Employees feel most engaged when performing meaningful and challenging work. It helps them to grow personally and professionally. She sounds like a go-getter, so why not keep trying to build on things she hasn’t yet mastered, even if the thought makes her uncomfortable at first?</p>
<p>I am not saying to put her in front of a classroom if she hates attention and make her teach everyday for a year. But jobs that might involve giving presentations at meetings, working in small teams rather than alone, etc. can be a start for someone who cringes at the thought of such things (if she does - again, I don’t know how you were defining introversion as it’s a commonly misunderstood term). Then when she’s strengthened these skills and developed a large, diverse network, she can go in any direction and know people that can help get her there. </p>
<p>I don’t think she should be thinking, “I want to go to graduate school, but for what?” Graduate school is a means to an end, not a place to explore interests like undergrad may be for many people. She should be thinking, “How do I utilize my knowledge and skill set to perform meaningful work?” …and once she knows what she wants to do, ask, “Do I require a graduate degree to obtain such a position?” If the answer is no, then she may be just as successful, or maybe more successful, without graduate school for her particular field. If the answer is yes, then she’ll already know exactly what programs she’s looking for. But right now graduate school should be the last thing on her mind, and finding suitable employment (not an internship) should be the focus. </p>
<p>Also, to comment on sax’s response, I would not be studying for the GRE at this time. If she would decide to go the route of business, some programs prefer, or will only accept, the GMAT. It is time consuming and expensive to do both. I would wait until she has a clearer idea of her goals to determine which test (if any) is most relevant. It wouldn’t hurt to study some of the vocabulary aspect as that would be useful for both, but wait until she knows which test, or whether graduate school is even necessary, before investing time and money in study manuals and courses.</p>