I am absolutely not trying to be insensitive - I am genuinely just trying to understand - so please take this question in the spirit that it’s asked.
Why is it offensive or “fat shaming” to ban certain clothes that would be fine on a small busted girl but not a large busted girl? I’ve had issues with my own weight (not in high school), and there was a time where I was 30+ pounds heavier than I am now, so it’s not as though I were skinny my whole life. And I also understand that some people may have proportions that are different, etc.
But in MOST cases, isn’t it just an issue of getting a larger size? Again, I am not trying to be offensive - just trying to understand. I always thought when people are wearing tight clothes it’s because they like to wear tight clothes, not because they can’t go a size up. Not everything has to be super fitted, right (for jeans for example, I have always had larger thighs, even now - so, I make sure they fit the thighs/butt, and if the waist is too big, that’s fine - it doesn’t mean I should get jeans to fit the waist and have my butt spilling out)? Even now, at my ideal weight, I generally don’t wear skin-tight clothing. Back when I was 30 pounds heavier, yes, I couldn’t wear certain dresses that would show too much, but that would mean I just needed to make sure chest, etc. were covered. Why is that offensive or 'fat shaming"? I understand people maybe being put off by the wording. But to me, spilling out of clothes always was associated with getting clothes that are too tight, not being too ‘fat’ or making people lose weight - just the need to go up a size.