My friends-and daughters- say there’s a way to describe yourself online that works. Anyone see how it’s like writing the right personal statement?
Both of mine met their SOs online. If you hired a pro for D1, this is the match that would have been suggested. Uncanny similarities. (Discovered after meeting. Not from a profile. ) Neither daughter said it was that much “work.” Not in a generation that is or was already on social media. Not compared to the alternative of, say, going to the cattle rush of clubs every weekend.
D1 had a few nice dates via tinder. Nice. Her match was on another site.
Adding. Trying to wrap my head around the idea that a guy who would opt out and go for prostitutes is somehow “desirable.” What, is has to be an easy transaction? Where’s the character in that? Why should he be pursued?